See Part 1 here
So the drama had just begun.
I took off my white shirt as the patch would not wash off, and I was so thankful to have the camisole under. So we were out of wipes and I opened the diaper bag to get his diaper and found out that I HAD NONE. Yes, there were no diapers in the bag. I had changed one already and somehow in all the hurry, I had forgotten to put in an additional one. (I always carry 2). I could not believe myself. I looked again, and nothing appeared magically. R said that we might as well put some clothes and cover him with a blanket, and rush to the flight to get a diaper from our carry on. So I wrapped him up in a blanket and carried him to the gate. I prayed hard that he wouldn't pee while I had him that way. It is cold in the airport and he always pees in the two seconds I do a diaper change for him at home. God heard the prayers of a desperate mama and he didn't pee all that time he was diaperless.
So we went to the gate and guess what happened?
OUR PLANE HAD TAKEN OFF.
With our carry on bags containing clothes for me and him, diapers, formula, food, laptop, toys (on the seat), coats (we were coming from cold Portland). All we had with us were both our wallets (PTL), R's work laptop and a diaper bag (without any diapers).
We were stuck in Utah.
I think we will remember for the rest of our lives what happened after that. We laughed. At the situation. I am in my camisole and jeans (I am not used to being in public with just a cami for a top), my son is without a diaper and clothes, covered in a blanket, we have no food for him, and the whole situation was just ridiculous. We walked around the shops a little bit looking for a diaper, but had no luck. Finally, the Delta rep got us some diapers and so at least, we were past the danger of being peed on any minute.
And they said that there were no flights going out that day and we had to stay over at a hotel. We selected the Plaza downtown. Because when life give you lemons, you make lemonade. It was really nice and the shuttle guy upon hearing our story offered to take us free to Walmart and then dropped us off at a nice place for dinner and picked us back up. May it be accounted to him for righteousness :)
Delta had given us some necessities in a small kit and there was an over sized tee shirt in that. I wore that all evening and Neil had a pant that I found in his diaper bag and the rest I covered him in a blanket. We had to take a train part of the way to get to Walmart. We looked like illegal immigrants. We were joking about something and walking. I am sure parents must have told their kids "We may be driving an old car and eat beans and rice most days, but at least we are better off than that poor family who cannot even afford clothes for themselves. Yet, look how happy they are." ha.
I bought some clothes, formula and other necessities from Walmart. My dress was too small, R's shorts was too big, but at least Neil's clothes fit. I tried on my dress and I looked totally inappropriate. The tank top in comparison looked modest. I never wore it, but returned it here. We had dinner at a Chinese restaurant called J-Wong and it was the best Chinese food we ever had.
Early morning, we had our flight back, and this time we made it home without incident. And praise God, we got our laptop, check in in bag, carry on bags, and our coats. We only lost one of his toys and Neil's coat (which were on the seat). Better his coat than mine. Mine was $100, his was only $2.50. And it is not like he needs a coat in 120 degree weather. And by the time he needs one, he would have outgrown it anyway.
And that is how my first Mother's day went down. Very very humbling. Made as many mistakes a mom could possibly make.
Two things made it all still okay.
I am married to a wonderful man. All through the ordeal, not one accusation, no finger pointing. Just got through it together as best as we could.
Neil was such a trooper through the entire thing. In the airport, he went to sleep in my arms in the blanket. He made hardly any fuss. How precious is a child's trust! He knows that wherever he is or whatever the circumstances, as long as he is in the parents care, all is well with the world. If only I had the same trust in my heavenly father, how better would life be!
5 comments:
Bless that shuttle guy's heart!
And yours, too, for that matter. May next year's Mother's Day be much smoother. ;)
Oh, so many contrasts! But the memories you now share!
"Made as many mistakes a mom could possibly make." (Don't we all?)
We are all so very human, and God allows us these insane situations as opportunities to get "through it together as best we could." That's finding the joy and peace in the midst of the storm! Thank you for a wonderfully vivid narrative. You have the oversized t-shirt as a memento. :)
I applaud the calmness that you carried thru your situation.I will be just the opposite and God has to show His mercy and kindness to calm me.Anyways,I am sure it is a wonderful memory.Now you know that you have to carry more than needed diapers in your diaper bag,especially when you go to India.
Georgia, I was thinking of you towards the end of the post because the toy that we lost was the one you gave him. The book with the rhymes on it. It was his favourite toy, that is why we had it out.
I had lots of spare diapers in the carry on which is why I didn't bother about the diaper bag, plus we were just going to be out for *15 mins*
Attitude is everything, and I must commend yours! I fear I'd have been a grumpy, angry mess if I'd been in that situation!
A great husband definitely helps! You are blessed. :-)
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